Phone or Video Coaching:
Packages include four 1-hour video or phone calls that take place weekly or every other week. Each call is a private one-on-one session and is customized to address your specific issues or concerns.
How it works:
The coaching calls will give you a neutral and judgment-free space to step back, get some perspective on your relationship, and see things with a fresh and neutral set of eyes.
Through the call series you’ll learn to find that space more easily for yourself when you hit future relationship challenges and conflict so that you’ll become more graceful and resilient in finding your own stability and answers.
While it’s my job to help you navigate what’s in front of you, ultimately my job is to teach my clients to fish rather than giving them fish. So relationship learning is at the core of all my work and what accounts for the staying-power of my client results.
Note: If both people in a relationship want coaching, I require that each person to sign up for his/her own coaching package to ensure a safe and conflict-free space to reflect, learn, and absorb.
Peace of mind is always one thought away.
One of the reasons I love what I do is that I believe in people.
That includes people like you even if you're just barely keeping it together.
Because at your core, just like everyone else's, is the natural capacity to find your own answers, have the strength to handle anything life throws at you, and to find your calm and confidence no matter how uncertain things are.
My job is to draw those capabilities out of you and teach you about the extraordinary power you and I were both born with that can never be lost or broken.
My role is to raise your level of insight and understanding, which strengthens your connection to that power.
A fresh outlook is always just one thought away.
And with a fresh outlook comes hope, reassurance, and peace of mind.
The end result is that you see your life and circumstances in a way that is not only empowering, but sustaining and practical.
Once you find your way to those feelings yourself, you'll take it with you, giving you a future with more peace of mind, grace, wisdom, and confidence.
A Few Things I've Noticed About People
In my 23 years as a personal development coach, I’ve noticed a few things about people that I found enormously reassuring when I was younger and very lost myself.
You don't have to be perfect or limitation-free to have a nice and fulfilling life.
Human beings by nature have weaknesses and shortcomings. Everyone has their own flavor of messiness, habits that our friends have to overlook, habits that get in our own way. Yet every day I work with people live full and satisfying lives in their all areas -- work, relationships, parenting, and friendships. The x-factor is the ability to find grace and humility, or what's often called a growth-model of life. And that's something everyone can develop.
Nobody really knows what they're doing in life, and yet we all find our way.
Compatibility is not a ultimately a factor when it comes to connection. I see and talk to couples every day that are considered compatible yet on the brink of divorce, and couples that seem incompatible yet have a strong unconditional connection. There's something else at work that anyone can grasp.
Your pain, insecurity, worry, and frustration are normal indicators of growth, maturity, and innovation
You can be in a relationship and be the only one looking for help. Or maybe you’re single and/or dating and wondering how to make sure that feeling of connection is part of your future. The part of relationships I find fascinating is that connecting to people has more to do with you than anyone else. What you’re looking for is within your means.
If you’re in a relationship that needs help, there are certain relationship fundamentals you can learn that will give you the hope and clarity to get a fresh start. That's my area of expertise.
Even if you’re single, dating, in between relationships, or not sure if you’re currently with the right person, getting a solid understanding of what it takes to build a stable, connected, and fulfilling relationship is well within reach.
4-Day 1:1 Intensive Program
in La Conner, WA, USA
This program gives you an opportunity to disengage from the daily patterns of your relationships, step back, and take a fresh look at how things are playing out for you.
You will spend 4 days one-on-one with me. If your partner is involved, he/she will work with the other member of my coaching team. This is a is a learning and development retreat that will give you fresh insight into where to find a deeper connection in your relationships.
How it works:
During four days we will have one-on-one meetings each day with breaks in between sessions for reflection and to review supportive materials. The meetings consist of discussion and directive learning that is specifically oriented to your unique relationship challenges and growth.
This program is offered via Zoom or in-person in the small and scenic town of La Conner, Washington.
Zoom follow-up is included in the program and helps keep the learning alive after the you return home. This program is offered year-round, seven days a week.
To learn more about this program or for availability, contact me. If you're not sure if this is the program for you, contact me below to arrange a time to chat with me and discuss your situation free of charge.
$4,500 USD for 1 person
$8,000 USD per couple,
$10,000 USD per couple,
(includes 5-star accommodations)